Be Satisfied

 

Good morning.

"Did you know men can die with an erection? My dad passed away very suddenly. Imagine my shock to see him with a full erection - which I covered up before my mom noticed it. WTF? How is this possible?"

While extremely rare, the phenomenon has been reported. It's not something that coroners put into a report, or that morticians will report to relatives. Specifically, it is a side effect of suffocation - as the body is being depleted of oxygenated blood, blood rushes to the organs to help them survive. That firmness of  erection is one of the attractions of erotic and auto-erotic asphyxiation --- which I do not recommend as it's likely the cause of most death erections.

Years ago, a friend's son was found dead with his boner in hand and cum on the floor. His parents were devastated and didn't understand what had happened. They thought he'd been murdered, but there was zero evidence of anyone else in the apartment.

Be satisfied with the quality and firmness of your boners without the help of depriving your brain of oxygen.

I'm not suggesting that this is what happened with your father, it's simply one way a man might die with a boner.

Kinks

Kinks can be fun, but they can also be dangerous.

"How do I approach my son about this? He's almost 18, but I still worry that he's dipping into dangerous scene. I heard a loud crash come from his room and ran into make sure he was okay. I found him with a belt around his neck and the closet rod. The rod broke thank God. He was under a pile of clothes, unconscious. I dug him out and discovered him fully naked and his dick was still hard but there was semen splattered everything. I'm rrally worried about this because I know about Bob Crane and that other actor. I don't know how to handle this discussion and really don't know how to explain this to his mother."

Erotic asphyxiation causes a lack of oxygen. The body's instinct is to protect the organs, so it sends an extra supply of blood - making the penis harder. A harder erection is what guys are after because that in turn creates more sensitivity, which in turn heightens the experience of ejaculation.

No one should ever attempt to do this without a "partner-spotter." Someone who will keep watch and intervene at the first sign of trouble.

 You need to have a man-to-man talk with your son. I'm sure he's quite embarrassed to have been discovered in that situation, so you need to make sure you don't make him feel worse than he already does. But you do need to explain the dangers of what he's attempting to do without someone there.

 Don't judge the activity. Don't judge him. There are so many kinks out there; discovering that your son is into one shouldn't be a surprise to you. Now is the time to blend dadship with friendship.

Being a man, tell him you understand his desire to enhance the pleasure of masturbation. Then you must convince him that - if he's going to continue this - he needs to find someone who will be there to watch over him.

That person can be as active in the situation (mutual jacking, etc) as they might agree but, if they forge forward into the erotic-asphyxiation, 

one must always remain level-headed, fully aware, and ready to help should unconsciousness happen.

I'm not sure how you handle discussing this with your wife. Any moms out there who can give us pointers on how to explain to this kid's mother?

Readers, anything you can add?

Info Searches

Searches for auto-fellatio (sucking your own cock) and auto-erotic asphyxiation (choking yourself when jacking off) have both brought recent page views. These two topics have been covered here once each (I think).

The former is pretty common - probably more common that you might think. It takes a limber body to be able to fold over like that. Having been a dancer, I can personally attest to the pleasure of it.

If you want to be able to self-suck you'll need to take Yoga or dance classes.

 But you'll have to stick with it because it takes time to limber up.

The latter, well, that's something which hides in the shadows. People don't admit to it very readily. Proponents say it makes the cock harder, thereby heightening the resultant orgasm.

Erections are a known side effect of strangulation / asphyxiation. It's the lack of oxygen that makes the cock get harder as blood rushes to organs to save them from death. 

It's the same thing with cold - the cock will retract as far into the body as it can, but it might also start to get hard to provide blood to preserve the organ.

Guys know that the harder their cock is, the more intense the sensations - particularly in the glans (the head of the penis). The more sensitive the cock, the better the ejaculation will feel when we cum.

Being alone for auto-erotic asphyxiation is not a good thing. The worst that can happen is fully depicted by actor Andy Devine in

THIS CLIP

from an episode of Game Over Man on Netflix. Erotic asphyxiation is one thing if you have a partner - a spotter - with you.

Because It's Pleasurable

There are so many different kinds of "kinks" it would be nigh on impossible to name them all. Yet, auto-erotic asphyxiation is another one of those sexual expressions which is kept deeply hidden from others. The more open a society becomes regarding sexual proclivities, the fewer tragedies we would find.

Find a buddy - believe me they are out there - and enjoy it safely!

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It's been discovered that a founding member of one of the Right to Life organizations has stated their real agenda against the funding of Planned Parenthood is not due to abortions, but rather because they believe Planned Parenthood promotes sex as an enjoyable activity; something to do for pleasure, instead of strictly procreation.

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Well, of course, we engage in it for pleasure.

Because it is pleasurable.

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But it is also healthy for us. Women as well as men.

So, go have fun

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get healthy this weekend.

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And feel free to enjoy it as much as you like.

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