Wednesday, July 31, 2019

What's Right For You

What is "porn?" When did porn become porn?

Most folks would say they know when they see it. Some folks consider it bad. Though, I suspect many of those same people view it - at least from time to time.


But is porn bad? Maybe. For some. But, I'm of the mind that it can actually be good and do good. It can help us discover ourselves, our likes and dislikes when it comes to sexual activity. And, oh, my! what a vast variety of sexual positions and activity there is! It's as varied as our imaginations allow.


That's not to say there aren't some downsides to imbibing. There are. For instance, if you begin to blur the fantasy that is porn with reality. Those are actors being directed.

Those actors do not depict the reality when it comes to our bodies, either. Perfect and unblemished? The average woman isn't perfectly shaped, the average guy doesn't have a eight or ten-inch cock. And, many times, neither do those actors; it's camera angles and lighting and semi hard-on's which make their cocks appear that large.


Give this Healthline article, "Is Porn Bad?" a read. Particularly if you are beginning to wonder about your own viewing habits. As the author indicates, "Porn, like so many things, is a very individual, very personal thing. You decide what's right for you."

8 comments:

SickoRicko said...

Very interesting article. To me, porn is not a bad thing.

AOM SoulFood said...

Good article, bud. I agree with you - I've found it helpful in discovering myself. I actually have learned new techniques and ideas that have enhanced my sexual experiences. I hope all is well with you and yours. Wishing you a Pornarific Day! Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM

Mistress Maddie said...

I watch porn from time to time, but my own fantasy and sceniros serves the purpose when I dont have someone here with me.

Xersex said...

porn can be marvellous! if it's well done!!

Your French Patrick said...

What is "porn?" When did porn become porn? LOL, do you mean according to Tumblr on its start or according to Tumblr since last December?
I agree with your quotation of David Ley, the lead author of the study published in Healthline, but under an important condition: you decide what's right for you if and only if you are both able and free to choose what it really is.
Everyone freedom stops where another's freedom begins.
Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.

William said...

Thanks for another great post. Love the links to other thoughtful, informative articles.

JeanWM said...

Yes it is very individual, you decide what’s right for you. I think it takes a certain amount of maturity though. Hugs and bisous.

Bob Forapples said...

I discovered porn in my 20s when it was only available at the small XXX rated theaters around town. There were a dozen or so in the city. I was scared I would be seen going in the first time but slowly got used to going there. Seeing all those naked people sucking and fucking was so hot I started going every Saturday and spending most of the afternoon watching the 2 or 3 films they were showing. Seeing the other guys there of all ages and realizing that many had their dicks out and were stroking made me feel very normal with my urges. I knew I was just like most guys out there from high school kids to older men. Cops would even come in from time to time and stand in the back, but they never did anything. I am sure they wished they could pull their dicks out and join in with the guys who were jacking. But of course everyone put their dicks away quickly whenever a cop showed up. It wasn't long before I got the courage to whip out my cock as soon as I sat down and stroke anad edge for hours. I would usually shoot two or three loads on those Saturdays onto the floor of the theater. Back then I would never lose my hardon after I shot my cum. My dick just stayed hard continually. There seemed to be a hidden spot in the back of the theater where I would see guys slip behind from time to time. I assumed they were sucking each other back there, but I never had the nerve to go look. Having porn online is convenient, but I truly miss being able to sit in that theater with other guys and watch them as well as the movie as we all pulled out our dicks and jacked near each other. It did make my cum shots way more intense than they are watching porn online.