Good morning.
"My wife and I fuck at least 2 times a week but recently I have been cumming and not really feeling the explosion and sometimes I’m not even sure I’ve cum. Strange but later I actually know I’ve cum. Any ideas why?"
Well, that sucks. Ejaculation is supposed to feel pleasurable. The explosive nature of it adds to our sense of sexual release.
Weak ejaculation symptoms include:
Reduced ejaculation volume. You may notice that you don't ejaculate as much as you used to.
- Reduced force of ejaculation. In addition to ejaculating less semen, you may feel like your semen isn't expelled with as much force as usual.
- Difficulty ejaculating.
According to the Cleveland Clinic:
It's fairly common and rarely cause for concern, but if consistent should be evaluated by a physician.
Anorgasmia, or a weak ejaculation --- sometimes called inhibited ejaculation --- is a common issue that can be caused by a number of different things: age, lifestyle, medications, or underlying medical problems; recent surgeries near or around the genitals, complications from cancer treatment like radiation.
Medications for Benign Prostate Hyperplasia (BPH), an enlarged (noncancerous) prostate can also be a cause of a weakened sense of explosive ejaculation.
What can you do about it? First, if this is persistent, go for a complete physical. Make sure there are no underlying conditions.
In the meantime, do you can do Kegels to strengthen the pelvic floor muscles that help you ejaculate. Lower volume means that less fluid is being forced out. If the first spurt is weak, the remainder seem to diminish sooner.
Also remember that sexual tension can be wound up like a spring. the more build-up to the orgasm the better it feels to cum.
So, you might also try spending more time on foreplay.
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While I've never had any issues with ejaculation, I do agree with you about the foreplay. I normally shoot and come a lot anyway, but if I have a long period of good hot foreplay my ejaculations are even more strong. He and his wife should try more foreplay.
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Thank you, aNd hugs and bisous my darlings Jean and Pat.
Have a great Tuesday.
Kegels all the way!
And that redhead!! Holy Moses!
What a beautiful man!!!!
XOXO
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Such a good point it’s amazing just adding exercise and weight reduction, and how that can greatly help your overall health.
Hugs and bisous.
The only time I remember to do Kegels is when I read about doing Kegels.
@ Rad - You're right. I should've added something about that --- a change of scenery, as it were, can rejuvenate. I'll have to send him another email. Thanks!
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