Friday, March 3, 2023

Complete and Satisfactory Orgasm

 

"The last week or so has been awful.  I been shooting a load at least three times a day but its not satisfying at all and it still feels like my balls are going to explode. Is there anything I can do to about a constant urge to cum?"



I can relate. And I can certainly sympathize. I think most guys could.


Just like women, men's hormones fluctuate. We all have those periods of extremely high libido once in a while, usually due to a surge of testosterone. The boners are super hard, and it can seem like nothing we do takes care of them. The hard-on will subside only to pop back up again, nagging us, until we whip it into a frenzy in an attempt to beat it down as fast as possible.



The problem with doing that is the intensity of the orgasm is missing. One thing that may help is to slow down. Use lube, if you aren't already.

Lacking a partner, if you have a masturbation sleeve, or a FlashJack, use it in a manner to mimic penetrative intercourse by thrusting into it.


At the very least, thrust through your hand.

That might help increase the sense of more natural sexual movement leading to a more complete and satisfactory orgasm.

Readers, any other ideas that worked for you, that might help this young man?

8 comments:

SickoRicko said...

You always have the best advice.

uptonking said...

Drink more water. Avoid caffeine. If you're drinking those terrible so-called energy drinks - stop immediately. Look at your diet... too much fat in the diet creates an odd malaise. Are you exercising? Fresh air and an oxygenated system create the kind of energy needed for a healthy sense of your sexual diet. You sound out of balance. And I bet you're not sleeping well, waking feeling oddly drugged and still unrested. Get off the couch. Away from the laptop / television and physically do things. Move. You'll sleep better and, with a healthier lifestyle all around - including plenty of water - you'll feel the sensations you seek in no time. Get out of your head and start living in your body.

Sixpence Notthewiser said...

It seems he’s straight?
He really needs a hookup app. Masturbation is fun and all but sex with someone else really is different. Maybe that’s what he needs?

XoXo

Sixpence

JeanWM said...

Uptonking brought up a good point, getting outside, fresh air and exercise, the huff and puff kind. Also, getting out, gets your mind off of yourself; when you are doing nothing, it's the only thing you can think about. If you're eating junk food, it can make you feel out of sorts, constantly hungry.

Have a good weekend, hugs, and bisous.

Anonymous said...

Get plenty of water.

Anonymous said...

God, me during lockdown.

Xersex said...

how old is he?

Tex said...

I agree with your advice. Sometimes I stroke with a light and slow touch. But sometimes I crave thrusting, penetrative sex. That's when I take out the masturbation sleeve.