Wednesday, July 28, 2021

Cumpadre

 

As I think back on it, Memory Wank is simply pulling a remembrance from what we used to call the Spank Bank. We'd see something particularly arousing and joke, "Oh that's going into my Spank Bank for later."


The second UWoD from the past week: Cumpadre. A jack off buddy (from 'cum' /'come', meaning 'semen', and 'companion'); a friend that you get together with for sessions of solo or mutual masturbation

Variant of: cumpanion (from 'companion' & 'cum'); jack off buddy & wank bud & JO buddy
Similar to: fuck buddy




Straight dudes have spent way too many years hiding this one in the closet. Coining new terms signals a greater acceptance, a normalization. I think wider acceptance opens things up for them. Not that they didn't join in and enjoy it --- they just didn't feel they could admit it.


Now, maybe it's getting more acceptable to admit.






All those straight, married guys who joined in the barracks circle jerks, all the ones who attended the jack off group meetings no longer have to deny it.

15 comments:

paulmmn said...

I've always loved your first picture-- two guys learning about their bodies, sharing the experiences, doing everything together.

Your French Patrick said...

The origin of "cumpanion" corresponds with what you say in an obvious and undisputable way.
But when "padre" replaces the second part of cumpanion it is less obvious since padre means father in Spanish or designates, in English, the title of a priest or chaplain in some regions.
Therefore I think that the Urban Dictionary is wrong.
I found this https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/compadre

Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.

SickoRicko said...

Fabulous post!

whkattk said...

@ MFP - I agree with you - that was the first thought that went through my mind. How different the definition of the two words had been separated. Though Merriam takes the original word, this one is a derivative of that, mixing in the sexual. Hugs and bisous.

whkattk said...

@ Rick - Thanks!

@ Paulmmn - Thank you. It's one of my favorites, too, for exactly the same reason.

Sixpence Notthewiser said...

I think FrenchPatrick is right. Compadre is an affectionate term for a close buddy in Spanish, but also your child's Godfather. Adding the 'cum' though does bring the connotation of jerk-off buddy.
I have never had the experience of a bunch of straight guys jerking off together. Sounds hot, though.

XOXO

Hot guys said...

I giggled at that 'joke' 😜

Gotta agree about straight guys, so many of 'em do it or have done it at least once 🤷‍♂️

Mistress Maddie said...

Well all I can say, is I have a very full memory spank bank.

And I love it, and am very honored when straight guys are trusting enough to jack off with me. Says a lot about them and there knowing them "self"

JeanWM said...

It's a human thing to want to share good feelings with good friends. Hugs and bisous.

uptonking said...

That would be nice, if true. Sadly, I think we're a ways away from true sexual liberation. Of course, younger generations are turning their backs on organized religion, so... fingers crossed on this one. Remove the shame! Play the game!

Xersex said...

the door with the inscription on masturbation made me smile!

whkattk said...

@ Mistress - You're correct. It does say they are quite comfortable in their own skin. And it's fantastic. I think you must introduce Six to them - he's never managed to enjoy that particular past time.

whkattk said...

@ Jean - Absolutely! Hugs and bisous.

Your French Patrick said...

@ Xersex:
Yes, but notice that this door is very very well closed.
That's is contradictory and makes me doubt that the guys inside are "out of the closet".
XO

Anonymous said...

I'm just happy the circle jerk is being revived with increasingly less shame. We literally all do it, why not together?

It's funny, I'm Lakota, and while it's not everyday conversation, and especially not mentioned to women, men pretty much see masturbation as ridding oneself of excess male fluid and cultivating masculine power. I did masturbate with my friends, actually quite a bit growing up. Note that pornography was HIGHLY taboo; it was assumed any women in those magazines or videos were bought and sold on the black market.

Move to California, I learn all the guys joke about porn, but never admit to masturbating together. I remember my first roommate showed me a porn video but ultimately we masturbated that night separately in the bathroom. We did break down barriers over time tho.